Friday, May 4, 2012

IT IS ALL ABOUT THINKING

The article of Thinking Folly is written by Eckhart Tole. In this article, he exposed about what happened when people had different kind of thinking. What makes you different from others? What is differentiate between clever people and less educated people? Thinking. The way we think that makes us different from each other. The way we think also created whom we are today. 
             Thinking makes us separated from our own world. Thinking makes us separated from nature and God.  
Sometimes we are forced to make a decision but we feel ourselves to be pulled in opposite directions by reason and emotion. Thinking creates an opaque screen of concepts, labels, words, judgments, and images that blocks a true relationship. Tolle wrote in his article “you are unconsciously identified with it, so you don’t even know that you are its slave . Its almost as if you are being possessed without knowing it, and you take the possessing entity to be yourself." This shows that Tolle believe people do not always think but our mind used us. He said that your mind conquer you and this is all only delusion. He also said that scientist does not creative not because they do not know how to think but they just do not stop thinking. 
             "The beginning of freedom is the realization that you are not the possessing entity-the thinker", Tolle wrote in his article. This shows that, he believe people will be happy when they are not being possessed by their own mind. People must realized that love, creativity, joys and many more happens beyond our own mind.

H.A.P.P.I.N.E.S.S

The Degree of Happiness is being written by Betrand Russell which is a British philosopher, mathematician and,  Nobel laureate. His article expose on how happiness can be earn by everyone whether he is an educational people or not. Whether he can read or not, it is does not matter.
               Everyone wants to be happy and happy is also can be considered as one of the essential needs in pursuing our life. Russell draws on the previous examples to suggest four general precepts that can help ward off persecution mania. First, your motives are not as pure as you would like to think, second, don’t overestimate your own merits , third, others are rightly less interested in you than you are, and, fourth, most people are not sufficiently interested in you to have a motive to attack you. Happiness not only depends on intellectual sources, natural laws or fashion. Sometimes, happiness can also be gain from physical vigor. 
                      In this article also stated that scientist more happy that artist. Scientist are more happy because they live emotionally simple, obtain satisfaction from their work and live happily with their marriage. While artists believe that it is necessary to be unhappy in their marriage. Artist also believe that a picture or poem is bad when people cannot understand it. 


ARE YOU A ROMANTIC OR A LIBERTINE?

This article is written by M.Scott Peck based on his best-selling book titled The Road Less Travelled. This excerpt analyze our mind on what type of lover are we? This article exposed about two types of lover which is Romantic and Libertine. Scott also mentioned that love is paradox. Most dictionaries defined love as a psychological feeling of affection and fondness towards sexual passion of an individual. Everyone will have this feeling of love but the way they express it makes it different from each person.
             Romance is a prevailing sense of wonder surrounding the mutual attraction in love affair. Romance have two types which is obligatory romance and optional romance. Obligatory romance can be seen where the person will celebrate the lover's birthday party or giving her gifts during Christmas. Optional over will show his love by come out with different kind of ideas such as giving funny greeting cards or candlelit dinner.   Romantic is a type of behavior that a person exposed in dealing with his love affair. This type of person love to show physically about how much they love their lover. This type of people likes to do surprises by giving gifts or wishing any special day to their lover as to impress their feeling. Every romantic people will treat their over as someone that is so special and precious in their life. Sometimes, this romantic person will end up hurting himself if their lover does not share the same enthusiasm. 
             Meanwhile, Libertine can be describe as a type of behavior that a person do in dealing with his lover but, in a different ways. This type of people does not fall in love to get his ideal love but more on their own sheer personal delight. The most famous person that exploits the concept of libertine is Giacomo Casanova, the Venetian adventurer and writer. 



Thursday, May 3, 2012

FRIENDS A.K.A ENEMIES

Friends or enemies can also be called as frenemies. Have you ever had a buddy that helped you a lot through bad breakup but then she flirt with your ex? This article being written by Kirsten Weir to exposed about how a warmth friendship can sometimes lead to jealousy. 
           Friends or peers plays big role in human's life. Friends that will bring ones up or down after family because ones will spend most of his life with their friends whether in schools or colleges. This situation can be seen whenever willing to left any other business just to lend hand and hep you but she will gossips about you later. Qualities such as warmth and understanding in friendship go hand-in-hand with criticism, jealousy or rejection. researchers found that this relationship will give effects towards mental and physical well-being, boosting blood pressure and risk of depression while lowering resistance to stress. 
           However, there is a way if you still want to be friends with this type of friends, you can mixed around with other friends and try to understand their hurtful behavior. Kirsten also said that human likes being friends with others and less friends mostly will bring more drawback. However, having lots of friends much less important when you dealing with this kind of situation, better to have only the good ones. Findings of the research shows that fifty-eight percent of variances in happiness being contributed by the quality of that particular person's friendship. In additional, no friendship is perfect but frenemies will contribute on low factors such as reliable alliance and self-validation. In this research too, many people said that spouses, parents, children and siblings are more ambivalence than friends because it is much harder to swap out a family member than a friend. Moreover, a great friendship will help the body to buffer against stress rather than having opposite friendship. You can overcome this problem by giving your friend advises and motivation.

ADVANTAGES OF PORNOGRAPHY

Long time ago, pornography used to be tough to get. People need to hide to buy the pornographic magazines but now not more. In this globalization era, people can get many pornographic materials such as videos or images only in one Google search. It is so easy. Age restriction is no longer useful moreover we can only look at those pornography materials for free.
            With access is more easier to this pornography site, scientists and researchers had renewed their interest in analyzing about this pornography addiction. They found that pornography also have advantages. Recent research found that moderate pornography consumption does not make users more aggressive, promote sexism or harm relationships.
             Contrary to the other people, they claimed that pornography can affect a relationship. a violent pornography user appeared to masturbate frequently, have more sexual partners and slightly less relationship intimacy. Furthermore, other people also said that pornography can provoke sexism among its users. The researcher also claimed that pornography can decreases rape cases. They claimed that pornography actually reduce the desire to rape by offering a safe, private outlet for deviant sexual desires.
            It is all about our own personal views and personal values that determine whether pornography brings benefits or disadvantages.

THE JEWS AND THEIR DECEITS

Adolf Hitler is well-known and considered as 20th century most powerful dictator during World War II. He killed many Jews during his administration. He also intended to create a new religion that install him as the new prophet. He also had created a book titled Mein Kampf that contained many of Hitler's basic ideas.
             Hitler claimed that the Jews cannot be trusted. He said this because years ago, Jews practicing their religion secretly and exposed their outward lives as Catholics. The Jews also liars and they hide their true feelings. They know how to hide their thought and tells us what we want to hear. They will study us carefully so that, they will not make us disappointed. The Jews like to spread wrong ideas to us although they know the truth. They learn it since the early age. When they are left alone with their own people, they will share everything that they had done without worried about being isolated. 
             The most worst is when they get the power, they will try to convince wider circle of the correctness of their ideas. Hitler also said that Jews always hungry for power and shameless. This can be seen in the tragedy that happens in Palestine. They will ask others to do the works but, the credit will be given to them. They will used others' knowledge to gain what they want. They will find ways to take our works and make it theirs. 
              They will also give many thins to people so that, it would be easier for them to ask people to follow them. This tactics will make their enemies hard to notice their bad intentions. 

STEVE JOBS THAT NO ONE KNOW

Steve Jobs is a big name in technology industry. He is the Bob Dylan of machine and also the Elvis of the hardware-software dialectic. In contrary with people that had worked with him for years.
              Jeff Goodell is the investigative journalist, a former worker of Apple and also the author of this article. He stated that behind all those magnificent technology created by him, he hide his true abrasive personality towards his employees. Many of his friends said that he had changed a lot as his creation also become more advanced over the years. His temper grows shorter and he easily get mad towards his employees.
               He demanded perfection in his creation He do not believe with the customers right. He believed that he always right. His picture also being describe as Megalomaniac which means he is too obsess with his work until he sometimes does not care about his employees feelings. His former employee said that, only few wants to work twice with him.